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It's Just Rape? Who says that?

Today we talked about rape culture. Emotions ran high.





It's Just Rape? Who says that?

Elizabeth Warren stand's with Planned Parenthood and not everyone is happy about it.

This is a conversation I had with an "interesting person" following a Google+ post of mine about Planned Parenthood. 

I am 100% pro Planned Parenthood. That does not mean I am pro abortion. No one is pro abortion. No wants to have an abortion. No one looks forward to an unplanned pregnancy because they enjoy abortions. I am pro choice. 

As a woman in America, it is hard to provide for yourself alone. It is damn near impossible to provide for another human being. It is one of the biggest decisions that many women face in their lives. I respect a woman's right to make that choice for herself. Women are capable of deciding what they feel is right. 

And who doesn't love Elizabeth Warren?

Here is the original post from August 4, 2015. 

Notice that this meme does not mention the word abortion once. I still would have posted it even if it had, but it does not

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I love this quote by Elizabeth Warren for so many reasons, just like I love Elizabeth Warren for so many reasons. The first few words alone are so exciting to hear, "Let's call out the Republican,". I know I am not alone in my desire to witness the Republican Party finally being exposed for their crimes against us all. I am eternally grateful to all persons who publicly speak the truth on our behalf. Yes, OUR behalf. Elizabeth Warren, like the small handful of other honorable public icons, does not just speak for her supporters alone. She speaks for women, and all other oppressed human beings at the moment, who desperately need someone to fight for them. Even if it means sometimes she ends up fighting for the rights of an ignorant bigot who thinks that because she is a woman she should sit down and shut her mouth.

Looking at this comment now, I could have done better. Though I actually wanted to say a lot worse. I try not let any anger come across when I am debating with ignorance, but sometimes it's simply unavoidable. 

There are so many things wrong with this that is hard to know where to start.

"Irresponsible women". 

I may have been able to bite my tongue and ignore his comment, had it not been for those two words. 

Abortions are not solely occurring due to the irresponsibility of women. 

Rape. Broken condom. Old condom. Birth control failed. It DOES happen. He was going to pull out, but then he just "couldn't". No access to contraception (especially teens). Lack of sex education (teens). Simple inability to afford doctor's visit and birth control prescription to due lack of health care options and poor wages. Then, yes, there's also irresponsibility. Though, BOTH parties engaging in sexual behavior are equally responsible for ensuring safety and for facing the consequences of failing to do so. And trust me, an abortion is a consequence all on its own. 

"The man has no rights to force an abortion".

That's right, sir. He does not. I can't believe I must explain why a man cannot force a woman to have an abortion. Also, I'm not sure why a man not having the right to initiate an abortion would mean that women shouldn't be able to either? Because women shouldn't be able to make any choices without the approval of a male, who by design is clearly better at all decision making. 

Simply put, no person may force any other person to undergo any medical treatment, or any other activity involving their physical body, against his or her will.

 What about the rights of the unborn child?

Well, first of all, just because you believe that life begins at conception does mean that everyone does. Just because you believe that life begins at conception doesn't mean that you have the right to force everyone else to believe the same. 

Just like because someone doesn't believe that life begins at conception doesn't mean they can force anyone else to believe that. Nor can they, at any point, make anyone else have an abortion if it is against their beliefs. 

There it is. It's so simple. We can all believe what we believe. We can all make our own choices according to those beliefs. No one may at any point take away another individual's right to make those choices due to a conflict in beliefs. The end. 

Against abortion? That's fine. Don't get one.